about guys?

when we talk about love, we tend to think of guys...what kind of guys that suit our criteria of being our future husband....i am tired of guys who adore so much of girls' beauty. i am wondering why beauty is so paramount important to them? why beauty is their priority??i do not deny that every human likes something beautiful to look at or even possess it!..but the search for a wife does not necessarily mean the search for a pretty girl!What do you think?

i am tired of those guys who fall in love due to girls' beauty..for me, this is not a real love at all...but that kind of guys juz being hypocrite!..love cannot be bought by beauty. it is because beauty can fade away as time passes by... the sonnet 18 by shakespeare is not true at all when he highlights the eternal beauty of a woman..em i feel like this is so much hypocrite of guys' sides...

for girls, do not worry so much if you think you are not beautiful enough to attract men's attention. believe me, true love will come from a man who will accept whatever you are whether you are with your scars and pimples on your face, without pointed nose or even without your teeth! a sincere man will never look at girls' beauty...instead will accept any weaknesses that you have...you might be miserable because maybe until now you still do not have any boyfriend or even involve in any courtship..again, believe me, your turn will come sooner or later...INsyaallah your fated spouse will come into your life...put a strong beliefs in yourself that Allah has created human his or her own partner on earth...Insyaallah...

but for those women who have look and beauty...it is undeniable fact that they will easily get men's attention or even public attention...but i do not really see their beauty as a bonus for them. on the other hand it can be seen as a responsibility for them...responsibility of taking care their own beauty and keeping it for their husbands...

having beauty is not a way of being proud or easily getting their dream men, but having beauty is a challenge for them to save it only for their husbands and as a warning sign for them to be so grateful to God...we have to bear in mind that Allah S.W.A. never judges human based on their outer beauty, yet their inner beauty...the beauty of their heart and also the true love and KEtaQwaan to Him...


men are BAD if they choose women only due to their beauty...in these days, it is hard to find a guy who sincerely loves us..from my observation..looking for a "pageant" is their priority...men's priority...honestly, i hate that kind of man..Nauzubillah...let them away from coming into my life and also other women's lives...

thus, for women, even though we still do not have our life partner, do not worry too much about that. as I provided earlier, just leave it to God's hands...have a strong belief in Him that he has already created spouses for us...Insyaallah...

conclusively, let us together create our pure love for God...because He never looks at our physical appearance to make us special at his side...Subhanallah....