when we talk about love, we tend to think of guys...what kind of guys that suit our criteria of being our future husband....i am tired of guys who adore so much of girls' beauty. i am wondering why beauty is so paramount important to them? why beauty is their priority??i do not deny that every human likes something beautiful to look at or even possess it!..but the search for a wife does not necessarily mean the search for a pretty girl!What do you think?
i am tired of those guys who fall in love due to girls' beauty..for me, this is not a real love at all...but that kind of guys juz being hypocrite!..love cannot be bought by beauty. it is because beauty can fade away as time passes by... the sonnet 18 by shakespeare is not true at all when he highlights the eternal beauty of a woman..em i feel like this is so much hypocrite of guys' sides...
for girls, do not worry so much if you think you are not beautiful enough to attract men's attention. believe me, true love will come from a man who will accept whatever you are whether you are with your scars and pimples on your face, without pointed nose or even without your teeth! a sincere man will never look at girls' beauty...instead will accept any weaknesses that you have...you might be miserable because maybe until now you still do not have any boyfriend or even involve in any courtship..again, believe me, your turn will come sooner or later...INsyaallah your fated spouse will come into your life...put a strong beliefs in yourself that Allah has created human his or her own partner on earth...Insyaallah...
but for those women who have look and beauty...it is undeniable fact that they will easily get men's attention or even public attention...but i do not really see their beauty as a bonus for them. on the other hand it can be seen as a responsibility for them...responsibility of taking care their own beauty and keeping it for their husbands...
having beauty is not a way of being proud or easily getting their dream men, but having beauty is a challenge for them to save it only for their husbands and as a warning sign for them to be so grateful to God...we have to bear in mind that Allah S.W.A. never judges human based on their outer beauty, yet their inner beauty...the beauty of their heart and also the true love and KEtaQwaan to Him...
men are BAD if they choose women only due to their beauty...in these days, it is hard to find a guy who sincerely loves us..from my observation..looking for a "pageant" is their priority...men's priority...honestly, i hate that kind of man..Nauzubillah...let them away from coming into my life and also other women's lives...
thus, for women, even though we still do not have our life partner, do not worry too much about that. as I provided earlier, just leave it to God's hands...have a strong belief in Him that he has already created spouses for us...Insyaallah...
conclusively, let us together create our pure love for God...because He never looks at our physical appearance to make us special at his side...Subhanallah....
Monday, 21 April 2008
A new journey
Assalamualaikum,
For your information, this is my new journey in my life...but what kind of journey? A journey of entering into literacy world..writing world...First of all I would like to say thanks to my beloved friends, Diana and Fathen who had introduced me to this writing world..thanks a lot! i appreciate it so much since i consider it as a good way to express all my feelings and thoughts and hope those will be judged by other people in whatever ways. For me, writing a blog is a cure...i do not know why but undeniably it is a cure for my loneliness..Sometimes i feel so lonely..i admit that it is not easy enough to go through hardships here coz we are all alone here and being independent is paramount important. we are away from our family and having Friends who care so much about us is enough a blessing. actually i do not know what i should write but i think this is just a start for me once i am involved in blogging activity....
a new journey of my life.....
until now, i am still not sure whether i had made a right decision to be in this course and become a future teacher? at this age, i am like asking where is real me?is this what i am supposed to be? or should I look back and change everything that prevents me from being here..is here or everything here will determine my future and fate?....just leave it to God hands...
being here, i feel like i am in the beginning of my life... i also consider it as a beginning of my search for my own identity...i do not care about time that keeps moving on...what i wanna do just keep looking ahead until i successfully accomplish everything that i desire...by the way..looking back is not good, right? being in this kind of journey is sometimes painful, but enough to teach us and give us a lesson about this life...
experience is a good teacher....well, what do you think? admittedly, i owed experience coz via experience, i tend to discover about myself and what life is about. ..experience of being good or bad....are all means towards our personal development...sometimes i wonder how lucky i am if i get back opportunity of being a child because a child has no responsibility for his or her life...what a child does ,-playing, sleeping, eating, being pampered, games etc...in contrast, a late teenage like me , i realize that my responsibility grow ...encountering all kinds of hardships, unexpected experiences and unresolved events keep haunting my everyday's rountines...sometimes i am tired of all this things....i hate what i am having now....i am blank....
but, alhamdulillah....my religion does not allow me to go out of track....religion is a strand that keeps us in the right path...when i reflect about my life...for whatever happens, how tragic it is, how pleasurable it is, and how hard it is, i MUST always be grateful...
Thus, a new journey does not necessarily lead us towards a good life...sometimes we have to be aware of risk of being betrayed by unexpected situation...and we have to be dare enough to fight against those "enemies" that invade our area of peace and freedom...being a brave soldier for ourselves is good resolution, anyway..
em, i think that is all....
thanks for whoever who read my first blog...assalamualaikum....
For your information, this is my new journey in my life...but what kind of journey? A journey of entering into literacy world..writing world...First of all I would like to say thanks to my beloved friends, Diana and Fathen who had introduced me to this writing world..thanks a lot! i appreciate it so much since i consider it as a good way to express all my feelings and thoughts and hope those will be judged by other people in whatever ways. For me, writing a blog is a cure...i do not know why but undeniably it is a cure for my loneliness..Sometimes i feel so lonely..i admit that it is not easy enough to go through hardships here coz we are all alone here and being independent is paramount important. we are away from our family and having Friends who care so much about us is enough a blessing. actually i do not know what i should write but i think this is just a start for me once i am involved in blogging activity....
a new journey of my life.....
until now, i am still not sure whether i had made a right decision to be in this course and become a future teacher? at this age, i am like asking where is real me?is this what i am supposed to be? or should I look back and change everything that prevents me from being here..is here or everything here will determine my future and fate?....just leave it to God hands...
being here, i feel like i am in the beginning of my life... i also consider it as a beginning of my search for my own identity...i do not care about time that keeps moving on...what i wanna do just keep looking ahead until i successfully accomplish everything that i desire...by the way..looking back is not good, right? being in this kind of journey is sometimes painful, but enough to teach us and give us a lesson about this life...
experience is a good teacher....well, what do you think? admittedly, i owed experience coz via experience, i tend to discover about myself and what life is about. ..experience of being good or bad....are all means towards our personal development...sometimes i wonder how lucky i am if i get back opportunity of being a child because a child has no responsibility for his or her life...what a child does ,-playing, sleeping, eating, being pampered, games etc...in contrast, a late teenage like me , i realize that my responsibility grow ...encountering all kinds of hardships, unexpected experiences and unresolved events keep haunting my everyday's rountines...sometimes i am tired of all this things....i hate what i am having now....i am blank....
but, alhamdulillah....my religion does not allow me to go out of track....religion is a strand that keeps us in the right path...when i reflect about my life...for whatever happens, how tragic it is, how pleasurable it is, and how hard it is, i MUST always be grateful...
Thus, a new journey does not necessarily lead us towards a good life...sometimes we have to be aware of risk of being betrayed by unexpected situation...and we have to be dare enough to fight against those "enemies" that invade our area of peace and freedom...being a brave soldier for ourselves is good resolution, anyway..
em, i think that is all....
thanks for whoever who read my first blog...assalamualaikum....
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